To Sis

This post doesn't mean to offend, no bad feelings and written with respectful feeling. Please read til the end. I hate to say this, but I must. Not to show that I'm more mature or obedient, just hoping to have the harmony that a home suppose to have back.

Since the day I came back, I feel stressful and can't feel the harmony that a family suppose to have. Everytime you talk to dad n mum, I'm so scare. I'm scare that it would trigger a fight or an argument anytime. But everytime dad n mum managed to tolerant and get through it. And I know that their hearts are ached and dissapointed. The way you talk to them are loud, irrespective, arrogant, non-considerate and non-respectful. Maybe you don't feel it, but to be honest, you really were. It is like you are so impatience with them. Just a small matter you will get mad and simply scold people.

They don't owe us anything, we are the one who owe them too much. So be nice to them, don't always whack havoc on them. They never expect anything from us, just a good attitude while talking to them. And this is the least that we can do now. You don't have to be rich to 孝顺them, you don't have to buy luxury goods or branded stuff to them. You just need to at least talk nicely, help them a bit on life and that's are good enough. Be more patience, loving and show concern to them. I ain't perfect, and I'm know I'm not good enough yet. But I'm learning. I learn all the good things from people around me. Do treat them good while we still have the chance, or we will regret in future.

I'm not scolding, I'm advising. Please don't make their heart brake anymore. Sometimes I wish I could bring them to escape with me, but I can't. I will definitely do this if I have the capability cause they don't deserve the way you talk to them. They never owe us. I understand sometimes you might lost you patience, but do think that they are old. They might be young externally, but old internally. The least we can do is to give them love which cost you nothing.

Don't follow the step of your aunt. Or else you will end up like her one day, losing all the loves one. Please have a deep think about it. Thank you.